My husband and I are big fans of Valentine’s Day.
Some people consider it a “Hallmark holiday,” but we love it because it gives us an excuse to treat one another and make some great memories. Last Valentine’s Day, we booked a relaxing couples spa day, complete with champagne, chocolate, and massages.
It was a great way for us to leave our everyday responsibilities behind us and unwind while enjoying one another’s company. Best of all, it didn’t cost us a fortune because we were able to find a great deal on Groupon.
If you’re looking for the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for the special lady in your life, rest assured there is no shortage of affordable, personalized, creative, and romantic gifts out there.
Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her Under $20
You don’t have to spend a lot of cash to make her happy. There are plenty of budget-friendly Valentine’s Day gifts she’s bound to love.
1. Couple pendant necklace
If she appreciates meaningful jewelry, a couples pendant necklace is a great idea. You’ll get one, she’ll get one, and you’ll both be reminded of your love for one another every time you wear them.
Each necklace comes with a mood bead, which changes colors based on your body temperatures and moods. Purple, for example, means passion and romance while green signifies calmness and red indicates adventure, energy, and motivation.
2. Chocolate cookies gift box
Does she have a sweet tooth? If the answer is “yes,” you can’t go wrong with a chocolate cookies gift box. She’ll get to indulge in six delicious chocolate sandwich cookies that are handcrafted from premium, natural ingredients.
Once she opens up the decorative box and sees the coconut crunch, craisins, almond crunch, caramel chip, dark drizzle, and peppermint cookies, she’ll be so thankful you are hers.
3. Primitive “I Love You” box sign
When it comes to Valentine’s Day gifts, bigger isn’t always better. A tiny box sign that says “I can’t say I love you enough, so this is your reminder,” is a great option. She can place this cute little sign on her dresser, display it in her office, or hang it above her bed.
4. King Beer Queen Wine Glass Set
If you’re a beer lover and she prefers wine, the King Beer Queen Wine Glass Set is an excellent Valentine’s Day pick. She’ll love her new wine glass that says “Queen” and you’ll be thrilled with your new beer mug that says “King.”
You can always go the extra mile and pair this unique gift with her favorite bottle of chardonnay, merlot, or cabernet sauvignon.
5. Bath bombs gift set
There’s nothing better than soaking in a warm bubble bath after a long day. If you know your woman couldn’t agree more, gift her a bath bombs gift set this Valentine’s day. She is sure to get excited once she puts one of these lush bath bombs into her tub and watches it fizz with a beautiful color.
This set comes in a stunning box made of recycled material that she can use to store her makeup, jewelry, or anything else long after the bath bombs are gone.
6. “If You Can Read This Bring Me Some” novelty socks
Does she love wine, coffee, or chocolate? Treat her to a pair of novelty socks that feature this cute message on the bottom: “If you can read this, bring me some wine, coffee, or chocolate.” Be sure you always have some wine, coffee, or chocolate on hand so that you can bring her what she wants every time her socks do the talking.
7. Heart waffle maker
If waffles are her breakfast food of choice, treat her to a heart waffle maker. She can use it to make fluffy, heart-shaped waffles or other delicious foods like paninis, hash browns, and biscuit pizzas. Since this adorable heart waffle maker comes with a recipe book, it’s also a great choice for any woman who loves to try new things in the kitchen.
8. Plush robe
With a plush robe at her disposal, she’ll have what she needs to lounge around and relax at home. This comfy robe is made from brushed microfiber yarns with a unique herringbone rippled texture to give off a stylish and comfy look and feel.
It comes in white, blue, fuchsia, light pink, aqua blue, bright pink, and dark coral so you can choose a robe in her favorite color.
9. Tea variety box
While some women can’t live without coffee, others can’t imagine their lives without tea. If the special woman in your life is the tea drinking type, she’ll get excited about a tea variety box. It includes 48 tea bags in varieties such as English Breakfast, Lemon & Orange, Green Tea with Jasmine, and Organic Chamomile. With this gift, you can give her a variety of teas she’s never tried before.
10. Personal wand massager
You don’t have to book a massage appointment at a spa for her each day when you can simply buy her a personal wand massager. She can use this handheld massager to relieve muscle pain, soreness, and tension any time she wants. There are three massage attachments so she’s sure to find one that she likes.
Cute, Personalized, or Creative Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Her
If she likes gifts that make her feel warm and cozy inside, there are many cute, personalized, and creative gifts you can treat her to.
11. What I Love about You Fill in the Love Book
This Valentine’s Day, tell her what you love about her. Or, you can get creative and gift her a What I Love About You Fill in The Love Book that she can read whenever she needs a little pick-me-up. This cute little book is packed with fill-in-the-blank lines that describe some aspect of your affection for her.
You have the freedom to make it as witty or mushy as you want to.
12. Lucky to Be in Love picture frame
Are you in love with your best friend? Tell her with an elegant Lucky to Be in Love with My Best Friend Picture Frame. Fill it with a 4” x 6” photo and she is sure to feel loved and cherished once you give it to her.
Consider placing this frame on her nightstand the night before Valentine’s Day so she has a nice surprise when she wakes up.
13. 47-inch big cute plush teddy bear
She doesn’t have to be a kid to appreciate a 47-inch big cute plush teddy bear. This is one of those unexpected yet exciting Valentine’s Day gifts that is perfect for the woman who is young at heart. It’s made out of a super soft material and features tiny round ears and a cute little tail.
14. Photo album scrapbook – Our Adventure Book
Showcase your adventures in a beautiful Our Adventure Scrapbook. Preserve her favorite photos of your vacations, hikes, social outings, and other great memories in this durable hard cardboard book that’s designed to last for years. You can even get creative and add captions, inside jokes, quotes, and other unique personal touches.
15. King & Queen Matching Couple Hoodie Set
Does she change into a hoodie to get comfy every time she comes home? Buy a King and Queen Matching Couple Hoodie Set. You’ll get to wear the “king” hoodie while she gets to wear the “queen” one. It’s made out of a cozy fleece fabric she’ll certainly appreciate in the colder months.
16. Our Q&A a Day: 3-Year Journal
Wouldn’t it be cool if you could create a three-year time capsule of your relationship? With the Q&A a Day: 3-year Journal, you can! It provides a question for every day of the year with enough space for you and her to write down a short response. It’s full of unique questions such as “where would you like to travel with your partner,” or “what does your partner’s laugh sound like?”
It’s a great gift for opening conversations and getting to know each other even better.
17. Initial thermal mug
For the woman who is always on the go, you can’t go wrong with an initial thermal mug. It’s a double-wall tumbler with a colorful letter initial and coordinating lid that holds 16 ounces. With this gift, she’ll think of you while she’s out and about as she’s sipping her hot coffee or iced tea.
18. Personalized planner
If she’s the organized type who likes to write everything down and stay on top of all aspects of her life, she’ll love a personalized planner. This planner, which features a gorgeous soft cover with her name, lays out every week on two pages with weekly goals, priorities, and to-do lists. With your thoughtfulness, she’ll be able to stay organized and motivated year-round.
19. Candle making kit
Some women love making homemade items for their homes. If this sounds like your gal, a candle making kit may be the way to go. She’ll love using the dye blocks, fragrances, soy wax bags, candle tins, cotton wicks, glue dots, and other items to create her own candle masterpieces.
20. Recipe box
Does your woman love to cook? If so, a recipe box may be a great gift for her. While you can give her the recipe box and let her fill it with her own favorite recipes, you can add a few recipes you know she’ll love. Make it even more meaningful by including some recipes for dishes you enjoy eating together.
Romantic Valentine’s Gifts for Her
If you’d like to step up your romance game this Valentine’s Day, you’re in luck because there are a variety of romantic gifts that can help you do just that.
21. Beauty and The Beast rose
While you can buy her a real rose, the Beauty and the Beast Red Rose Kit is a better option because will last forever. It’s made of high-quality silk and comes with a bright glass dome to protect the real-looking flower. Turn on the steady warm white light or clear blinking multi-colored light when you give it to her and she’s sure to be impressed.
22. Willow Tree Promise sculpted hand-painted figure
If she loves cute little trinkets, the Willow Tree Promise Hand-Painted Figure is a great gift. This hand-painted resin figure is ready for her to display on her shelf, table, or mantel and features a romantic message that reads “Hold dear the promise of love.” With this gift, you can express love, healing, courage, hope, and all of the other positive emotions you want her to feel.
23. Love LED Valentine candle
Looking for a candle gift that stands out? Consider the Love LED Valentine Candle. It’s made from real wax, rather than the plastic wax you’ll see on most LED candles, and includes a silver mirror finish at the base that will look great with any decor.
If she is a candle collector, she’ll definitely appreciate this one-of-a-kind candle.
24. Preserved flower rose
The preserved flower rose is an excellent option if she loves flowers but wishes they lasted longer. As long as she keeps it clean, this flower will last two to three years without watering. With this gift, you’ll get a high-end package as well as a DIY greeting card so you can write a romantic poem, message, or just about anything else you can think of to make her feel special.
25. Engraved stainless steel vacuum-insulated travel mug
To show her that you’ll love her forever, gift her an engraved stainless steel vacuum insulated travel mug that reads “Loved you then, love you still, always have, always will.” This travel mug is the perfect way for her to be reminded of your eternal love any time she’s away from home. The fact that it can keep beverages cold for up to 48 hours and hot for up to 12 hours is an added bonus.
26. Gold-dipped rose
Some women just love gold. If your lady is one of them, treat her to a gold-dipped rose. It’s made of a real, fresh rose that was shaped and retained by resin, which can keep the flower fresh forever. The stem is covered with 24K gold to give this rose a bright and luxurious feel. Since the rose will never fade, it will symbolize your forever love.
27. Our Moments Box
One of the best ways to keep your love alive is to talk to her and do it often. The Our Moments Box can help you spark meaningful conversations and connect on an emotional level. It comes with 100 conversation starters that can take you out of your comfort zone and remind one another why you’re a couple in the first place.
28. Heart-shaped trinket dish
A heart-shaped trinket dish is an adorable gift if you know she could use a place to store her rings, earrings, hair brushes, and other small items. It features the sweet message of “I love you to the moon and back,” and makes the perfect decorative yet functional piece for her bedroom or bathroom. If you really want to spoil her, place a new ring or earrings in the dish.
29. Fleece throw blanket
If she loves to cuddle, it only makes sense that you get her a fleece throw blanket. It’s made of a luxurious solid white faux material and perfect for every season. You can expect it to cover you both while you’re relaxing on the couch, in bed, or just about anywhere.
30. Long distance lamp
The long distance lamp is ideal if you live apart or one of you is constantly traveling. Here’s how it works: You’ll get a lamp and she’ll get a lamp. When you’re thinking of her, you can turn your lamp on and hers will instantly come on. It’s a unique, romantic way for you two to connect when you’re not together.
Experience Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
If you know she prefers experiences over things, there are plenty of exciting experiences you can gift her.
31. Movie Night in a Box
Movie Night in a Box is a great idea if she loves to cuddle up on the couch at home and watch a movie. It comes with a gift card for a one night DVD rental from Redbox as well as everything she could ever want for the perfect movie night. Popcorn, Skittles, Mike & Ikes, Hot Tamales…you name it, it’s there. Since there are so many snacks in this package, she can use it for more than one movie night.
32. Bath and body gift basket
This bath and body gift basket is full of bath time goodies that are perfect if you want to treat her to a romantic bath this Valentine’s Day. It includes shower gel, bubble bath, a diffuser with lavender essential oil, bath salt, pouf, and more. If you have a tub that’s large enough for two, this gift can help you put it to good use.
33. Tango Together Date Set
Give her an unforgettable date night with the Tango Together Date Set. It’s packed to the brim with two full sets of Tangrams, 15 puzzle cards that include 2 ways to play, and an instruction card that will show you a completely new and fun way to communicate with her. There’s also an “Illumination Questions” tent card game, special “Kiss Bag” with mints and kiss tokens, and a hand-poured soy candle.
34. Tickets to a live show
If she loves live performances, consider gifting her tickets to a show. Whether it’s Broadway, a comedy show, concert, or the opera, she’ll love that you took the time to find one she’d enjoy. She’ll love this gift even more if you tag along, even if the show isn’t really your thing.
Related: 10 Places to Get Cheap Movie Tickets
35. Tickets to her favorite theme park
If she’s a thrill-seeker, you can get her tickets to her favorite theme park. She’ll love spending the day riding roller coasters, people watching, and indulging in turkey legs, cotton candy, and any other food favorites she may have. If there’s a theme park that’s further away that she’s been meaning to try, you could always surprise her with a mini getaway.
36. Voucher for a couples massage
A couples massage is a classic Valentine’s Day experience gift that won’t disappoint. It can give you both the opportunity to unwind and spend quality time relaxing together. Some couples massages come with champagne, chocolate, roses, and other extras so do your research before booking one.
37. A weekend getaway
Whether it’s to a cozy bed and breakfast, big city, beach town, or anywhere else, a weekend getaway is an exciting gift. You can either talk to her boss and schedule a couple of days off on her behalf for a true surprise or you can present it with an IOU so she can choose the dates that work best for her.
38. Cooking class
If she enjoys cooking, find a cooking class at a local culinary school or kitchenware store. She’ll learn to cook a new recipe and get expert tips from chefs. There are all types of cooking classes out there so choose one that fits her tastes and personality. You may choose a sushi-making demo class or a hands-on surf and turf class. There are countless options, and you can make it even more special by joining her.
39. Rock climbing
Rock climbing can be an exciting gift if she loves being active. Find a nearby rock gym and take her on a cheap date idea she’s sure to enjoy, especially if she’s never climbed before. Most rock gyms have climbing opportunities for newbies so she’ll have no problem if this is her first time.
40. Picnic in the park
For this gift, pack up her favorite lunch or dinner foods, grab a comfy blanket, and take her to a scenic park for a nice meal and conversation. If you’re not into cooking, you can have this meal catered. You might need to schedule the date a few months down the road, especially if you live in a colder climate, but you can set the stage by purchasing a picnic basket and putting in a handwritten note about your plans.
How to Decide What to Give Your Girlfriend or Wife for Valentine’s Day
The reality is that every woman is different. While some women are hopeless romantics, others prefer practical or adventurous gifts. Before buying a Valentine’s Day gift for the special woman in your life, think about her unique personality. Does she enjoy receiving tangible gifts or are experiences more important to her? Would she prefer that you stick to a budget or is she OK with something expensive?
Once you narrow down her preferences, you’ll find it much easier to find the perfect Valentine’s Day gift.